an open relationship.

so this idea has fascinated me for some time now. by definition, an open relationship is one where two lovers are not exclusive sexual partners, but are in a sense, each other's favourite. The love exclusivity without the exclusivity. or something.

what's the big deal? It's hard. jealousy runs strong in these situations, where it's important to remember they LOVE YOU VERY MUCH and it doesnt matter who's bigger or better.

it usually goes on a like, don't ask, don't tell agreement, where the other person doesn't want to hear about it and doesn't need to hear about it. falling for other people is kinda a no-no, so it's best to keep it physical, unless you can juggle that many hearts at once.

I'd do it. I want to do it. I would treat the metaphorical 'her' as a lover, but have the freedom to be with other people. it would be SUCH an experience. such a new way to experience love.

consider it.

Me

given.. stuff

ok <3

15:50C

What makes you think I'm not the same with other guys

we're both in the same situation arent we

15:50Me

what do you mean?

15:51C

okay here we go, me trying to explain something

15:51Me

:D do it

15:51C

we're both single and just wanna go with whatever and fuck around and what not

15:52Me

yus

that wasnt that bad you explained it in a sentence

15:52C

hahahah

woooo !

15:52Me

yeah! yeah I do

but its complicated

coz im kinda smitten

so in actual fact

i wouldnt speak to you about other boys for my own purposes

and about other girls also

haha boys whoops

15:53C

hahahahha

you fucked that up

15:53Me

yup.

15:53C

Well okay

15:53Me

and to answer your question

because I dont hear about it or see it

which is the beauty I guess

15:54C

thats why this is so great haha

15:54Me

it is pretty great

but then it ruins the point

if i dont

and then I talk to you about it?

15:55C

well then lets just keep that stuff to ourselves/other friends yeh

15:55Me

ok